Social cues

Social cues are the silent signals people send: tone of voice, faces, body language, pauses. Reports often say a child misses them.

Applies across the UK

When a report says your child misses social cues, it means the child does not pick up, or does not respond to, signals other people expect them to notice: a warning look, a bored tone, a turn in the conversation ending.

It is worth knowing that this framing is one-sided. Research with autistic people suggests communication breaks down in both directions: non-autistic people misread autistic signals too. So a child described as missing cues may also be sending cues that others miss.

Our own reports use this phrase, including as a headline finding. Read it as shorthand for a difference in how your child does social signals, not as a fault in them.

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